They're encouraging. That's likely the hardest part about it - when people have died because of something you did, or something you didn't do, the last thing you want to see is them still wholeheartedly putting their faith in you. Trusting you to do right by them, wanting you to finish what you started together and what they're no longer alive to see through.

[...Yeah.]

You have my sympathies. For the one you love.